i read your paragraph about married
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i read your paragraph about married
you mention and told you have doubts over marriage? why so?
maria.arshad- Posts : 2
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Re: i read your paragraph about married
maria.arshad wrote:you mention and told you have doubts over marriage? why so?
I don't know, I just want to do it with my own money, and that was kind of the problem when I was in a relationship before, she used to indirectly say it all the time, to get engaged, but I wouldn't give it much thought and tell her, I'll only do it when I am financially stable or in other words independent, and then she had her bad times and I did too, and it lead to constant break ups, so I told myself that nobody would be crazy about you as she is, so if she waits, and one day if I am successful, I'd marry her and I don't need to be in a relationship before it.
Then things kept getting worse, I honestly became a complete ass and started flirting with everyone all over the place, but I always loved her, and didn't want to replace her, then one day I get a message and the guy just tells me everything she has been saying behind my back, while I, was shocked in a way, because I never saw it coming, and IDK what happened all the love in me died , I didn't get depressed, I just felt very light, some of the things he said were true some were not, so I told him the truth behind every part of it.
So that is why I am unsure about marriages, I mean I don't misjudge people but I did, what if I am misjudge the person i marry it would ruin my life.
Re: i read your paragraph about married
Admin wrote:maria.arshad wrote:you mention and told you have doubts over marriage? why so?
I don't know, I just want to do it with my own money, and that was kind of the problem when I was in a relationship before, she used to indirectly say it all the time, to get engaged, but I wouldn't give it much thought and tell her, I'll only do it when I am financially stable or in other words independent, and then she had her bad times and I did too, and it lead to constant break ups, so I told myself that nobody would be crazy about you as she is, so if she waits, and one day if I am successful, I'd marry her and I don't need to be in a relationship before it.
Then things kept getting worse, I honestly became a complete ass and started flirting with everyone all over the place, but I always loved her, and didn't want to replace her, then one day I get a message and the guy just tells me everything she has been saying behind my back, while I, was shocked in a way, because I never saw it coming, and IDK what happened all the love in me died , I didn't get depressed, I just felt very light, some of the things he said were true some were not, so I told him the truth behind every part of it.
So that is why I am unsure about marriages, I mean I don't misjudge people but I did, what if I am misjudge the person i marry it would ruin my life.
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